What is the last thing you learned?
If it’s work-related, I learn something new every day—whether it’s a technical skill, a process, or a better way to manage situations. But if I stop and look at this from a philosophical perspective, the last thing I truly learned is about self-preservation.
I’ve always tried to be selfless, often putting others first, sometimes to my own detriment. But recently, I’ve begun to understand why people are inclined towards selfishness—or rather, why they prioritise their own survival, stability, and interests. It’s not always about greed; sometimes, it’s about protection, about ensuring they don’t end up on the losing side.
What’s been particularly interesting is how cultures and loyalties shape this idea differently. In some cultures, self-preservation is seen as a necessity, even a virtue. In others, it’s almost shameful, something to be criticised if it comes at the cost of community or family ties.
Alongside this, I’ve learned more about myself. I’ve taught myself more patience, more understanding. I’ve made peace with respecting opinions, even if I disagree with them—even if I wouldn’t make the same choices. I don’t necessarily agree with self-preservation as a mindset, but I can now understand where it comes from.
And maybe that’s the real lesson, understanding and respecting, without necessarily accepting.
The Narratives - Mohamed Miah 
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