The Narratives – Mohamed Miah

Describe a man who has positively impacted your life.

A Tribute to My Suto Bhai

There are many men who have had a positive impact on my life. From my father and grandfather to uncles on both sides of the family, cousin brothers, and even my brothers-in-law, the list is long and deeply meaningful. But today, I want to focus on someone who holds a uniquely cherished place in my heart—my cousin brother, who I lovingly call Suto Bhai.

There’s only one Suto Bhai, and there always will be. Right now, he’s in the ICU, fighting to get better. If there’s one thing I know about him, though, it’s that he’s resilient. He’s strong-minded, and his faith is unwavering. These traits have defined him for as long as I’ve known him, and I have no doubt they will help him overcome this battle, too.

A Big Brother in Every Sense

Suto Bhai is about 15 years older than me, give or take, and he’s always taken me under his wing. Every summer holiday, I’d visit his family, and without fail, we’d sit in the kitchen, drinking tea, nibbling on snacks, and talking for hours. Those conversations felt timeless, a place where the outside world faded away.

He wasn’t always unwell. In his mid-twenties, illness crept into his life and never quite left. I know it changed how he saw himself; he sometimes spoke as if the illness had redefined who he was. But to me, he was just Suto Bhai, my big brother—the same kind-hearted, thoughtful man I’d always looked up to.

Moments That Matter

When we spent time together, the world seemed lighter. He’d take me out shopping, not necessarily to buy anything but just to walk around, get some air, and stretch our legs. He knew life wasn’t easy for me growing up, but he never made it about that. He didn’t pry or ask too many questions. He just created a comforting space where I could breathe, where we both could forget our struggles for a while.

In those moments, we were just two people enjoying each other’s company, laughing at the little things, and sharing unspoken understanding. That’s the kind of person he is—quietly supportive, always present.

A Bond Built on Faith and Memories

I always pray for him, and when I was in i’tikaf, I made sure I prayed for him every day. Some people in life touch your soul in ways you can never repay, and for me, he’s one of them. No matter where life takes us, or where we end up, the memories we’ve built will forever hold a special place in my heart.

Life doesn’t always give us perfect situations, but it gives us people who make the imperfections bearable. For me, my cousin brother, my Suto Bhai, is one of those rare souls. He’s taught me about resilience, faith, and kindness in ways I’ll never forget.

So today, this post is for him—with hope, love, and countless prayers for his recovery.

Stay strong, Bhai. Always.