Do you trust your instincts?
Do you trust your instincts? For me, the answer is an unwavering yes. It’s something I’ve honed since childhood, starting as a way to keep myself out of trouble and later to steer me away from danger. Over the years, I’ve come to realise just how deeply connected we are to our instincts—they’re part of what makes us human.
My instincts are usually spot on. But even so, I always give things—and people—a second chance, sometimes even a third. Why? Because what would be the point of life if we didn’t? Closing ourselves off at the first sign of trouble only breeds selfishness and isolation.
Everyone and everything deserves the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes, that extra chance will surprise you in the best way possible. It feels good when that happens, like a small victory for hope and trust. And if it doesn’t work out? You can walk away knowing you tried, and there’s no shame in that. You pick yourself up, dust off, and try again.
Instincts, I believe, are more than gut feelings—they’re our survival toolkit. Fight or flight, survival, intuition; these are hardwired into us. The more we trust and fine-tune these natural responses, the better off we are. But instincts go beyond survival; they extend to how we interact with one another. Smiling at someone, engaging in conversation, showing kindness—these are instinctive actions that connect us on a deeper level.
In today’s world, though, we’ve become too quick to react, especially on social media. A tweet here, a post there—often typed in the heat of the moment without much thought. This disconnect from our instincts is troubling. We need to slow down, reflect, and think before we hit send.
True instincts aren’t reactive—they’re reflective. They urge us to pause, weigh the situation, and act with intent. If we can learn to trust them, they’ll guide us toward what’s right, even when the world around us feels chaotic.
It’s also worth noting that modern media—once a source of information—has become more of an entertainment machine. Repeating a narrative enough times can turn it into “truth,” while silence on important matters renders them invisible. In this age of noise and distraction, trusting your instincts is a way to stay grounded, to sift through what’s real and what’s not.
The more we detach ourselves from artificial interactions and reconnect with our human instincts, the more balanced, empathetic, and authentic we become. So yes, trust your instincts—they’re the compass that keeps us human.
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