The Narratives – Mohamed Miah

When it comes to lazy days, the answer depends on the weather, and how I’m feeling. But if I had to choose, I’d say they usually leave me feeling more rested than unproductive. There’s something about slowing down and embracing those simple pleasures that can feel like a recharge rather than wasted time.

Autumn and winter are ideal for lazy days. I love it when it’s cold or raining outside. There’s a unique cosiness in these months, inviting you to relax. Rain pattering against the window, wind swirling outside, and I’m wrapped up in a blanket on the sofa. The house is warm and peaceful, my wife sat next to me, the TV’s on, and we’ve got a cup of tea in our hands. These are the days I look forward to—where everything slows down and we enjoy the comfort of home.

Sometimes the kids will join in, and we’ll put on a film with snacks or maybe even a takeaway. It’s one of those rare moments where the whole family is together, and as the kids grow older, I’ve come to value it even more. These slow, quiet days aren’t just relaxing—they’re a reminder of what matters most.

Summer, on the other hand, is different. Something about the sunshine and warmth makes me feel like I need to be doing something. Whether it’s helping around the house or taking the family out for a few hours, I feel more energised in the summer. It’s not necessarily about productivity but enjoying the season in a different way—being outside, moving around, making the most of the longer days.

The only time a lazy day might feel unproductive is when I’m unwell, stuck in bed. That’s when rest feels like a necessity rather than a choice. Even then, I try to remind myself that it’s okay to rest, especially when it’s needed.

In general, though, lazy days are something I’ve come to appreciate more over the years. Life is busy—between work, family, and everything else—it can be non-stop. These moments where I can take a break, without feeling the pressure to be doing something, have become a rare luxury. As my body doesn’t always agree with my mind these days, I’ve learned to cherish these restful moments. They help me recharge for the days ahead.

So, do lazy days make me feel unproductive? Not at all. They’re a chance to rest, recharge, and enjoy life at a slower pace.