What could you try for the first time?
When I first thought about answering the question, “What could I try for the first time?” my instinctive response was simple: I’m content. I’ve tried most things in life, for better or worse, and I’ve come out the other side stronger, evolved, and secure in myself. It’s a comforting place to be—secure in my own skin. I no longer tell myself off for not reacting to people, and I’ve learned the difference between that and trying not to react. Sounds similar, but they’re worlds apart in terms of peace of mind. These small lessons have made me better.
That’s not to say I don’t have new goals, but they’ve shifted. Instead of chasing new experiences for myself, I want to focus on giving my family more of the world. The truth is, if I’m going to try anything for the first time, it’s going to be experiencing the world through my children’s eyes. One of my dreams is to travel more with my family, to expose them to different cultures, foods, and experiences.
My daughter and I have already made a list of places we want to explore, and top of the list is Paris next summer, Insha’Allah. There’s something special about sharing these moments with my children, watching them learn and grow through each adventure. Travelling with them isn’t just about visiting new places, it’s about teaching them the beauty of diversity, the richness of different cultures, and how much we can learn by stepping outside our own world.
But honestly, if I didn’t travel, if I didn’t try anything new again, I’d still say Alhamdulilah, I’m content. It’s a beautiful feeling to reach this point, to appreciate the life I’ve lived, and to feel a deep sense of peace with where I am now.
The future might hold more firsts, but for now, I’m grateful for today. Alhamdulilah.
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