The Narratives – Mohamed Miah

What’s your favorite word?

We all have that one word. That one expression we lean on, whether we’re trying to smooth things over, make someone feel appreciated, or just get what we need without sounding rude. For me, that word is “thanks.” Close behind, waving its polite little hand, is “please.”

Now, I know what you’re thinking: Out of all the rich, evocative words in the English language, why would I pick these two? Surely, there are more exciting choices, like discombobulated or quintessential, right? But here’s the thing—“thanks” and “please” are like the unsung heroes of our everyday vocabulary. They might not be flashy, but they’re reliable. They get the job done.

Why “Thanks” Tops My List

Let’s talk about “thanks.” It’s simple, straightforward, and does exactly what it says on the tin. But beyond its practicality, it carries a certain magic with it. Gratitude. When I say “thanks,” I’m not just acknowledging a deed—I’m recognising effort, kindness, and the human connection behind it. As a person who believes in humility and respect, saying “thanks” gives me a chance to honor that.

Plus, let’s face it—life is better when we’re grateful. There’s something deeply satisfying about wrapping up an interaction with a solid “thanks.” It’s like the full stop on a sentence, the bow on a gift, the final whistle in a well-played match. It’s a reminder that we’re not in this alone, and that we should appreciate the people around us—even if it’s just the person who held the door for a second too long.

Why “Please” Deserves Second Place

Now, “please” is a close second, and trust me, it wasn’t easy deciding the order. “Please” is like the key that opens doors without kicking them down. It’s not demanding or bossy. It’s gentle, respectful, and shows that you’re asking, not ordering. There’s power in that, a kind of strength wrapped in humility.

In a world where everyone seems to be in a rush or too self-involved, “please” stands out like a beacon of politeness. You want that last slice of cake? Say “please.” Need a favor? Don’t forget your magic word. It’s like the cheat code to life, ensuring you can get what you need without trampling over others. Honestly, if we all threw a few more “pleases” into our conversations, we might see fewer power plays and a lot more kindness.

The Forgotten Art of Good Manners

Growing up in a household where manners were non-negotiable, these words weren’t just encouraged—they were expected. And not in that forced, robotic way, but as a reflection of your character. Saying “thanks” and “please” wasn’t just about etiquette—it was about treating others with respect, regardless of status or role. Whether it’s the CEO or the person who cleans the office at night, everyone deserves these words.

In my professional life, leading a team, when someone takes a moment to add a “thanks” or a “please,” it’s like a breath of fresh air. It changes the whole vibe. People work better when they feel appreciated, and sometimes, all it takes is a word.

In Conclusion: The Power of Two Simple Words

So, there you have it. My favorite word is “thanks,” with “please” close behind. Not the fanciest words, I’ll admit. But in a world where we’re all striving to be heard, to connect, and to matter, these two words are small yet mighty. They’re like the secret handshake of human decency—reminding us to appreciate one another and to approach life with a little more grace.

After all, as I often tell my kids: manners cost nothing, but they’re worth everything.